December 31, 2013

2013 in a *blink*




This year went by exceptionally fast for me for a number of reasons:

1) For the first 3 months of the year, I was not in the country. Yup…I took my first solo trip across the ocean, to another continent: EUROPE!!! To Berlin, Germany to be exact. For the first time in my life, I was in a foreign land all by myself. I had to be independent. I had to adapt. I had to survive. And I did!

2) After returning home from Berlin, a week later, I was off to Manila (also for the first time). I was only in Manila for a week, but it was enough to convince me that I wanted to go back. Definitely for more than a week the next time round. And for a holiday, not work!

3) Come April, plans and preparations for my organisation’s 3rd Congress begun and lo and behold, I was put in charge. April to August were busy busy months of planning, planning, planning, preparing, preparing, preparing. Those months flew in a blink of an eye and soon, September approached (the month when the Congress happened) and that month flew too.

And now…as I sit at the computer writing my final entry for what has been an eventful year, I find myself trying hard to recollect what happened in the last 3 months. Nothing big, major or important happened; it was mostly catching up on emails and backlog but nevertheless, the months flew.

One day that I don’t think I will forget is my birthday coz it’s the day when I celebrated my last year of being in my 20s. As much as I am looking forward to welcoming a new number, a new decade of my life, I have my apprehensions. Am I missing out on the “normal” things? Hmmm…

Anyway…here’s to a better 2014!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

Last Day

-Just found this in my drafts-

So today was my last day in Berlin. I had the morning off so after breakfast, I took a long walk - 1 hour to be precise, and non-stop. It was really cold today but the air was so crisp and fresh. I walked all the way to where I formerly lived earlier in the year. It was quite a walk but since it was the weekend, there were hardly any cars on the road and it was nice to be able to walk freely. 

It was nostalgic for me, walking down the same street I walked almost every day more than 7 months ago. I remember the bakery I went to every morning (I could not resist getting a hot chocolate), the second hand shop I bought a handbag from, and the cafe I frequented after work each day. I then decided to visit my former housemate since I was already in the neighbourhood. Although I had emailed her before I came to Berlin, and once again emailed her a few days ago, there was no reply from her. So I took a chance and went to her apartment. Unfortunately she was not in.

After that, I decided to go to the Turkish market but once again, it was unfortunate for me that it was not open yet. After all, it was only 10am, and if I'm not mistaken, the market opens at 11am.

After the disappointment of not getting to meet my former housemate and visiting the market, I took the long walk back to my hotel. By then, my hands were frozen and all I could think about was to get out of the cold. 

I met Qiao Qiao for lunch at around a quarter past noon, after which we proceeded to attend the workshop organised by several of the alumni members. That lasted until 6pm. We all then headed back to the office for the Annual Party.

I wore a Punjabi suit and got positive comments, I'm happy to say. Photo opportunities were rare but I did get to take a couple of pictures. There were in fact more men at the party than women but unfortunately, there were only two that were easy on the eyes. One was taken (a colleague's bf) and the other is an alumni. He was in my Working Group yesterday but despite) that, we did not get to talk much (he's the one behind me in the group picture). :-)

The lack of picture opportunities is not an excuse but most of the time, most of us got caught up in a conversation and before we knew it, we were off to another group or subject and the thought of taking photos just vanished.

Overall, I am really glad that I made this trip despite the long travel hours and short stay. I would not have liked missing this event. I'm not sure how many more years I'll be funded to attend thee kind of events, but you can be sure that I'll jump at the chance just to return to Berlin! I really enjoyed being bakck in Berlin and meeting the friends that I made while I was here. It also gave me the inspiration to do well in my work after seeing how passionate most of the people here are. Like I said in my previous entry, although at times I really felt that I lack the knowledge or experience to be able to mingle in such groups, I'm blessed to be accepted by them and I hope that I have in some way contributed to their knowledge and understanding of issues. 

The days are getting colder and I hope that the next Alumni meeting would be during a more favorable weather! 

November 16, 2013

Alumni Conference 2013

I got up this morning and the first thing I did was smell the jacket and clothes that I wore yesterday. Since I could not stand the smell of smoke that was stuck on my clothes and jacket, last night I proceeded to spray perfume and then used the hair dryer to blow hot hair all over my clothes. At that point, I was desperate enough to try out anything, even if it did not make any sense. But surprisingly, when I went to smell my jacket and clothes, the smoke smell was GONE! Lol! 

Anyway, today was the reason why I made the long trip from Malaysia: the Alumni Conference. I was told that around 30 people would be attending but there were more. And to my pleasant surprise, the majority of the people were of my generation or even younger!! Back in my organisation, most of our partners are of the older generation, so any meetings or conferences or workshops would see me as one of the youngest. It was a pleasant change this time round. 

At first it was a bit awkward for me as everybody seemed to know everyone; but once the ice was broken, we could all mingle like we were old friends. I don't think I met every single person but the group of people I was with were a nice bunch. Unfortunately (or not), there were no cute guys! LOL! 

As this was an Alumni Conference, the participants were of course former interns or volunteers or trainees that had been with ECCHR at some point or another. Interestingly or rather intimidating-ly, whoever I spoke to either had a Masters or double Masters Degree, or were in the process of doing their PhD. At times I actually felt like I somehow lacked the "experience" or qualification to be in the group. But then, I told myself that instead of a Masters or Phd, I have 6 years of on the ground work experience that they may not have. So in a way, we're equals; and in another way, we're not. Get what I mean?

The day was long in that there were 3 sessions; after which we had a small reception, then had a good buffet dinner. I finally met Qiao Qiao, the 3rd Global Exchanger, whom I've only communicated with so far. 4 of the 5 Global Exchangers are here in Berlin. 

The official Alumni Conference is over. But there is a 4-hour workshop tomorrow organised by some of the Alumni. This is outside of the Conference and only a small group is expected. Later that night, it's the Annual Office Party, where around 200 people are expected, so that's going to be BIG! 

After today, my trip seems so quick. I can't believe that I will be leaving the day after tomorrow, returning to the same routine once again. I have not taken much photos this trip, though I hope to take a few tomorrow. 

November 15, 2013

Smoke!!

Smoke! Smoke! Smoke! That is all that I smell now as I sit on my bed typing this entry. I just got back from a round of drinks at Porx - the famous hangout place of the ECCHR staff. Although I was only there for about 2 hours, my laptop bag, jacket, sweater, top, jeans, underwear and whole body reek of smoke!

The worst thing is, I have no laundry facility, which means, I'll have to wear my smoke-filled jacket for the next 2 days!!! Oh God!! I've sprayed perfume on ALL the clothes that I wore, including my laptop bag! I took a shower and washed my hair twice - I hope I got the smell out.

Anyway, now that I've ranted, let me go back to the start of the day. So I slept REAL early last night - 8pm - that's as "late" asI could stay awake. I was up at 3am, 4am and 5am. Finally, I decided to get out of bed at about 7ish, took a bathe and then went to have breakfast.

I went to the office around 1030am and went out with Carolijn to catch up on things. After that, I had another round of coffee with Sankar, the lawyer from India who is the current Exchange Fellow. We were joined by Carolijn and Isidore, an intern from Cameroon.

After lunch, we had a very productive meeting on pesticides litigation which lasted until nearly 7pm. We all then adjourned to Porx, where my predicament occurred.

Tomorrow is the Alumni Conference which will last the entire morning and afternoon; after which there will be a buffet dinner.

I really hope my spraying of the perfume works, else I'll choke to death with the smoke smell. 

November 13, 2013

I'm back.....in Berlin!

So...after 7 months, I'm back in Berlin! As in my previous entry, who would have thought that I'd be in Europe twice this year?

Anyway, my travel did not start well at all. My 9.45pm flight from PG to KL was delayed to 10pm. Then it got delayed to 10.30pm. During the wait, I made a friend from Shanghai, Grace who was on her way back after a 3 day work trip. I somehow must have looked like I know everything coz a well dressed lady who was on her way to Dubai came and asked me why the delay! After waiting for 45 minutes while worrying about my connecting flight, MAS decided to combine 2 delayed flights and we were all flown to KLIA on an AirBus plane!

As the plane was taking off, I was almost certain that I was going to miss my connecting flight. Upon landing, there were a few people from the delay crew waiting for some of us, me included. We were all bundled up into a buggy and were F1-ed to the immigration. After passing the immigration, I was escorted, running to my departure gate. I boarded my 11.45pm flight at 11.40pm. Of course, I was the last one to board.

Luckily, on my row, there were only 2 of us - me occupying the window seat and a guy in the aisle seat. Right after take off though, he decided to move seats and for the whole 12 hours, I had 3 seats to myself! I stretched myself and slept for almost 9 hours. My aim of watching at least one movie did not work out. Maybe on the way back.

This time when I landed in Amsterdam, I could take my time as I had a two hour transit. I decided to track my luggage as I was told back in KL that my luggage may not reach on time as they did not have the time to search for my bag and put it on the plane. A check with the KLM ground staff told me that my bag was not in the system. I braced myself for the inevitable and decided that I'll just have to accept it and get new clothes, toiletries etc. I was still hoping for a miracle though.

Upon reaching Berlin, I decided to wait at the luggage carousel and see if the miracle happened. Guess what? It did!! After about 5 luggages let through, I saw a bag that's familiar and my heart jumped. I looked properly and WOOHOO...it was my bag!!! I grabbed it and headed out of the airport with renewed energy.

I took a taxi to the hotel. The driver was an African migrant who has been in Germany for more than 30 years. He thought I was 25!! Haha! Passing through all the familiar landmarks, it was such a nice feeling knowing that I've seen that or been there. We even passed a placed where there were people preparing for the Xmas market. Unfortunately, it will only open in two weeks' time.

Once I reached the hotel, I rested while watching TV, then had a bath and then headed to the office to say hello. Not many people were there so I left and went to get a hot chocolate (back to that again!) and some food.

I don't think I'll go anywhere else today as my body feels sluggish. But tomorrow onwards, it'll be busy and I know then that my time will FLY!!

It's going to be hard to say goodbye to Berlin again! 

October 31, 2013

Who Would Have Thought?

Who would have thought that before I left my 20s, I would have left my carbon footprint half way around the world? My sister and I used to talk about our travels, joking that we're "destined" to travel only to the north (Thailand) and south (Singapore) of Malaysia. Since dad used to travel for work, we'd visit him wherever he was during our holidays.

Anyway, fast forward a decade or two later, and I finally breached the "north-south" barrier and stepped into India. And I went to India twice!! 

Then this year, just a year before I say goodbye to another decade of my life, I stepped into Germany. Yes...this time it was another CONTINENT!! You can call me "ulu" but what the heck! 2 months in Germany and then it was off to Manila for a week! 

And now...I'M GOING BACK TO GERMANY!! As I mentioned in one of my previous entries that I MAY return to Germany in November, everything is confirmed and I've got my ticket. All in less than a year. 

To say that I'm excited would be an understatement. I'm excited not only because I get to meet my wonderful German colleagues whom I left behind, but also because this time, it'll be autumn and I have already been told that the scenery is beautiful this time of the year. 

I leave in about 12 days' time and it's time to get packing. I've already got my lists written up thanks to the slight OCD in me. But there are plenty more to do. I need to check if my sneakers are in travel condition. I need to change some money into Euros(!!). I need to buy toiletries. The list goes on...

While there is excitement, there is also a little sadness. I just feel bad, "bragging" about my travels when my family can't follow me. As I've previously mentioned, my sis and I have decided to start a travel fund for our travels each year but so far, this has not been going well. 

We wanted to go to the Philippines this year but it did not work out. So we said we'd go to KL during the Deepavali break but that too is not going to happen. Perhaps at the end of December. Who knows? 

All I know is, I am blessed to be given the opportunity to travel to these places - all paid for with nothing much to worry about. And in return, I work hard and try and provide the best for my family.


 

September 17, 2013

Lag

Wow...it's been 3 months since my last entry. I didn't even have an update for my birthday! I guess I used up all my writing juices in Berlin and Manila. Lol! 

Anyway, in my defense, all I can say is that nothing THAT interesting has happened so far, that I felt the need to have an entry here. Everyday has been work, work, work; leading up to the big week-long meeting that ended just last week. *phew*

Being the main coordinator of that event was no walk in the park. I had to be on top of everything all the time. Thank God for good workmates! 

Apart from that event, another thing that happened was my sis undergoing her first surgery. She had found a lump in her left breast, and after having it checked, she was advised to get it out. The surgery was last Friday and I'm very happy to say that she is doing well. :-)

It's now September and I feel as though 2013 has just zoomed past me. Of course the first 1/4 of the year just went in a blink of an eye; now, we're almost at the end of the 3/4! Before I know it, it'll be Xmas, then 2014!!!

Anyway, guess what? I've been invited to go back to Berlin this November, though it's only for 3 days. It's for the Alumni Meeting and also a follow-up for one of the cases I'm working on. The trip is not confirmed yet as I still have to discuss this with my ED. 

Let's hope for good news (it'll be autumn in November). Till my next entry....


May 31, 2013

Hmmm...

It's the last day of May, which means that in 3 days' time, I'll be a year WISER. Yes...my birthday is just around the corner and as been tradition ever since I started working, I've applied for and been granted leave on my birthday. Since my day this year falls on a Tuesday, I decided to take Monday off as well, so as to enjoy a long weekend. Plus, since I've got to finish up 24 days of my annual leave before the end of the year, I can afford the two days.

The usual hoo-haa for every birthday here in Penang is that there will be an ushering in of the birthday at the shop as the clock strikes midnight. Then there will either be a BBQ or some sort of makan on the day itself.

This year however, nothing has been planned. The shop is closed on Monday so there will not be any ushering in of the birthday. I'm not exactly sure what is going to happen (IF anything is going to happen at all) as my sis is working on both days (sadly she's got an audit thing and can't take leave). Monday is Rest Day for mum and dad and Tuesday is a normal working day for them both.

People have been asking me about my big plans for the day, considering that I will be entering my final year of the 20s. I don't know whether it's PMS or something else, but somehow, I feel no excitement. I foresee a typical Monday and a normal Tuesday. Sad.

My sis told me yday that if I want to do something, I should take the initiative and do it; not complain about no plans being made. I agree with her completely. But at the same time, I really don't know what to do. I don't want to take away my parents' only off day of the week thus taking away the only day they can get a full day's rest; and neither do I want to have some sort of do at the shop on Tuesday coz I know the amount of work it entails. Furthermore, as I'll be returning to work on Wednesday, sis and I will leave the shop fairly early as usual.

Sighs...I sound like such a fussy pot. I'm going to blame it on AGING. If this is how I feel this year, I can only imagine how I'll be feeling next year, although I've been saying that I am looking forward to it.

Hmmm....






May 6, 2013

I am a MALAYSIAN



Malaysia has always been known to be culturally and racially diverse. With citizens of various races making up the 27 million population, it’s easy to see why Malaysia is a tourist attraction; culture, tradition, diversity all in one place.

I myself come from a family of mixed races. I have more than 5 different races in my family, with relatives from as far away as Europe.

Growing up, I learned totally different things at home, in school and in the real world. I was brought up to respect, love, tolerate and embrace our differences. In fact, I would like to think that I am colour blind (if you know what I mean).

But when I started school, I was immediately segregated. Not physically but in the many ways of how things were done. When I filled out forms, I remember having to mark the ‘race’ and ‘religion’ column. Even my teacher’s attendance book had the race and religion of each student. Does it really matter how many Indians and Chinese are in a school? Aren’t we all from the same country anyway?

This issue extended beyond the school gates. Being of mixed parentage (of which I am extremely proud of), people often ask me about my religion and race. I don’t mind the questions as it can sometimes be amusing, watching people guess which racial division I come from.

Nevertheless, I never thought twice about this matter until recently. I was at a workshop in Manila that was organized by a European organization. Needless to say, there were Europeans and Filipinos. Other participants came from Indonesia, Malaysia, Bangladesh, India etc. Now…I work in an international NGO and the majority of our partners are foreigners.  So it’s normal for me to be dealing with people from different countries. But I digress.

The point I want to make is this: it has been ingrained in me since primary school that I have to be identified as an Indian. All official documents and forms have this ‘race’ thing. I am so used to answering questions about my ethnicity that in Manila, when I was asked whether I was Indian, my immediately answer was YES.

Half an hour later and it dawned on me that I had made a mistake. My answer should have been: I am a MALAYSIAN. I’m only ethnically Indian; even that, I am a Hindu. Being an Indian would literally mean I am from India. But the moment had passed and as it was the last day of the workshop, I did not have the time to find the person and correct my mistake.

This happened about a month ago and it keeps haunting me. It keeps haunting me because I can’t help but think of how shallow my thinking is still. I don’t mean to segregate and identify myself as an Indian, but because as they say, practice makes perfect, I have perfected the art of justifying which race I come from.

After the Manila trip, I have consciously made the effort to identify myself as a Malaysian. It’s hard but I think it’s a necessary step towards achieving peace and the true spirit of 1Malaysia. There should be no more Chinese, Indians or Malays. It saddens me to see post-election reports using words such as ‘Chinese Tsunami’ and ‘Malay Wall’.

These Chinese and Malays are MALAYSIANS. No one race determines the country. It is the PEOPLE not the race of the people that makes a country. 
 

May 1, 2013

My stay in Berlin - How it changed me



Now that I have been back home for more than a month, it has finally sunk in that I was away for 2 months, in a foreign land (make that Europe for the first time!!); experienced winter (and snow) for the very first time; lived on bread, pasta, salad, meat (no seafood) and hardly any rice for two whole months; was independent (it’s a different kind of independence back home, if you know what I mean); met so many new people and in the process, made friends out of colleagues; experienced the German culture, tradition and life; and last but not least…I survived all that and came home intact!! In fact, I would say that I adapted well, coz, as people around me were getting sick because of the weather and whatever; I was as healthy as a horse! You would think that I would be the first one to get sick considering how unused I am to the cold and all.

Food

This was a funny adventure especially when it came to bread and cheeses. I never understood the labels and when I asked people, they found it hard to explain what is what to me. In the end, I just bought whatever I thought looked and would hopefully taste nice, and then I go home and discover that I was wrong! LOL! Happened numerous times especially with cheeses but I chalk it up to experience. :p Have had a LOT of coffee and cake too! Drank a lot of wine! Finished a whole bottle of wine by myself. Oh…not forgetting beer! I drank a lot of beer, wine, coffee, milk and hot chocolate during the two months. It was coffee and hot chocolate when I’m on my own; and beer and wine whenever I was out for dinner or drinks with colleagues.

History

I’ve seen, touched and left my mark at pieces of history that most of us only ever read in books or watch on TV! I mean, seriously, how many people can say that they’ve seen the Berlin Wall twice and have even written on it! Haha!

Public transport

I own and drive a car in Penang. In Berlin, I had to rely on public transport for my entire stay; a scary experience; I went everywhere with a map of the public transport network routes! It took me nearly 4 weeks before I learned how to read and interpret it, but even then, on my second last week, I got lost! Lol!

Work

The main reason I went to Berlin was for work. It was an exchange programme to learn how an international human rights organization works, while at the same time, share experiences of my work as my organization deals with the grassroots. I have to admit, after a month in Berlin, I still wasn’t sure what I had learned and what I would be bringing back. After speaking to Claudia and reflecting internally on what I had done the past 30 days, things soon started to fall in place. One thing that really helped put things in perspective was Robert Goldspink’s visit. I really started to understand what it is that I was in Berlin for and how and what I could bring back to my work in Penang. Things became clearer and exciting.

Motivation

One other thing that I learned while on my trip is that I should make full use of the time I have. I will be 29 this year, one year short of turning 30; and I wouldn’t want to be one of those people who say they have regrets for not doing so and so while they were in their 20s. Part of my weekends are always wasted as by the time I get up, it’s noon; then I dilly-dally till it’s time to go to the shop. Perhaps I can find or start a new hobby so that I don’t waste or wile away all those precious hours before I go to the shop. The Europeans really know how to enjoy their time off and they always have something to do or somewhere to go. And their Monday morning greetings are always, “How was your weekend?” J

Since coming back, some of my weekends have been full. One weekend that needs to be highlighted is the weekend my brother, his fiancée and a friend came up to Penang. This was the first time I watched my brother perform, and my oh my, was I the proud big sister! J

I’m still looking for something to take up or occupy my weekend. I’ve thought of going back to playing badminton or learn an instrument. I’m not sure. I’ve also been thinking that it’s time to start exercising. I’m not sure why but I feel as though I’m not fit.

8 weekends in Berlin

I had 8 weekends in Berlin and this is how I spent them:



1st week: Did nothing. Adjusted to the weather and jetlag. Cleaned room. Went around the neighbourhood with housemate, Karin.

2nd week: Went for a party/clubbing in support of refugees. Went sightseeing with Clod. Coldest day was Sunday early morning: -13C!!

3rd week: Went to the museums. Got new and proper winter boots! Cheese fondue dinner with colleagues.

4th week: Visited the Jewish museum. Met up with Jemimah and friends. Went to Berlin Wall and left my mark!

5th week: Went to Checkpoint Charlie, another place where the Berlin Wall is. Checked out Potsdamer Platz and got some souvenirs.

6th week: Went to a concentration camp in Sachsenhausen. Needed to make myself happy after the concentration camp visit for I went to shop for souvenirs.

7th week: Explored KaDeWe, the biggest mall in Europe apparently and bought souvenirs. I also got lost!

8th week: Last weekend!! Pack! Pack! Pack! Hung out with Marie and Anna. Walked around Krumme Lanke forest with Claudia. A beautiful place!

March 25, 2013

Manila Trip



As excited as I was to finally be in the Philippines, my super short trip here ended in an anti-climax. The workshop that I attended proved to be the only fruitful thing of my stay. Well…maybe not the ONLY thing, coz the icing on the cake was actually re-uniting with some of my Berlin colleagues.

Other than that, the rest of my stay was pretty much boring; I didn’t get to see much except the Mall of Asia from the outside (it’s the biggest mall in Asia), and Marina Bay. I also didn’t get to try balut! I really wanted to try it and I would have if I had the opportunity. Alas, this was not done. Perhaps it’s a sign that there are certain things that I should do with my sis! Lol!

The worst part of the trip was my return flight. Having arrived 2hrs before my scheduled departure, my flight was delayed, apparently due to bad weather! The ground staff claimed not to know what was happening and I had to get updates from my sis through SMSes. I was so worried that I would miss my connecting flight from KL to Pg, which in the end I did miss.

The flight was delayed for more than 3hrs (apparently the plane had not enough fuel and had to divert to another airport to re-fuel), causing me to miss my connecting flight. I was even told that I would be given accommodation as my flight to Pg would be the next morning!! Thankfully, when I arrived in KLIA, I was given a new boarding pass with my new flight; I took the last flight out of KL. I arrived home at nearly 2am!

This month does not seem to be going my way. I did not get to see spring in Berlin, my luggage was then stuck in Amsterdam, my Manila trip was not that fun and of course the delay at the airport.

Nevertheless, I guess all these could be signs that I should return to Berlin and Manila, preferably with my family, so that I can really enjoy the trip.

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March 21, 2013

Day 3 in Manila


I slept at nearly 1am yesterday, and I woke up a bit “late” as I sort of “overslept” according to my OCD timing. Nevertheless, I still managed to get ready in time and was at the meeting room on time; only to find out that the session today starts at 10am!

There were a few others there as well, who didn’t know about the programme change. The agenda for the past two days have been constantly changing, so I guess many of us assumed that the agenda would also change for the last day.

The extra hour that I had was spent on checking emails, checking- in for my flight tomorrow and browsing FB.  When the session finally started a little after 10am, it was a short session. It ended at 1pm, with us each getting a small notebook, using it as an autograph book to get the participants to write in each other’s note books. It was a nice gesture and a fun activity.

After lunch, there was a small group meeting that lasted for 2 hours, after which, Chela and I went to Robinsons Place, a mall nearby. We managed to get some souvenirs before heading back to the hotel as it was getting dark.

Dinner was with my boss and 3 of my other Filipino colleagues, and we went to the other side of Marina Bay where the biggest mall in Asia is located: Mall of Asia. It’s apparently 4 football fields wide. It was a massive building!!

We didn’t go inside the mall but ate at a seafood place nearby the mall. We had pork, adobo kangkong, sinigang maya-maya, boiled prawns, mango salad and rice. I even drank a very refreshing green mango shake. It was yums!!

After that, we went looking for balut and surprisingly couldn’t find any vendor!! Both Marjo and I were disappointed but I am going to try one more time tomorrow morning before I leave. I hope I get to try it as I don’t know when I’ll be back to the Philippines (though I hope to come back for a holiday!).

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March 20, 2013

Day 2 Manila


So I think I’m back to my normal time as I have been sleeping at midnight and getting up at 7am. It’s a relief since it’s back to work for me next week.

It was a heavy day today at the workshop. The sessions were really intense and my brain was fully used to the maximum! But it was good. Some of the sessions were repeats of what I had gone through in Berlin, so it kind of felt good that I knew what was going on and that in some way, I was ahead of most of the people here. Haha!

We even managed to finish a meeting that was supposed to happen tomorrow; so now I’m hoping I’ll be able to go out and sightsee a bit tomorrow, and hopefully take some pictures and buy some souvenirs, to remind me of my first trip to Manila!

I’m also hoping to try balut! My Filipino colleagues say that it’s nothing to fear, that there’s no bad smell (smells just like eggs) and that it actually tastes nice. Let’s see. Marjo wants to be with me when I try it just to see my reaction; I think it’s good that she comes along, in case I chicken out at the last minute.

I went to dinner with my ED and two Filipino colleagues at Marina Bay (the place looks sort of like Straits Quay). We had sort of a typical Filipino meal of ‘Laing’, ‘Bangus’, pork, tofu and rice. I must admit, the meal was delicious!

By the time we left the restaurant, it was nearly 11pm.

I haven’t had the time to take photos, so I’m really hoping take some tomorrow, not only with the people here but also of the area, as apparently, Marina Bay is famous and people often come here just to see the sun set.

Lot’s to do tomorrow and I hope I get to do it all!

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One Year

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